Having a partner you can relax and laugh with is absolutely key to
having awesome sex. If you’re uptight, or trying to present a particular
front to them (no pun intended), or feeling worried or insecure, you
won’t have as good a time, physically or psychologically. There’s this
idea that having good sex is all photogenic
grabbing and open mouths and
porny writhing in ecstasy, whereas in actual real life it also involves
a fair bit of two (or more) people murmuring at each other and giggling
and kissing and saying ‘ooh, is this better?’ ‘Like that! Yes!’ and
shifting from cuddles to sex to snoozing to sex to cuddles with some
conversation on the way.
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